to THE WOMAN SHE ACTUALLY IS. Listening to Pam's stories of moving around a lot growing up and trying to re-find who she was, where she belonged. Her mom was a very girly girl. And after having 3 boys she was super excited to finally have a daughter, Pam. So of course it was everything pink, glittery, and extra girly! Even putting Pam into pagents! This is the story of Pam busting free from everything people expected her be and becoming HERSELF.